615. Hi, it’s 609 again, haha. Sorry i was so vague about the ‘pop the question’ thing. Yeah, I meant as his gf. I asked him yesterday if he considered us to be “talking” and he asked me, “Do you?” and I said “Yes, Do you?” And to which he replied, “Well yeah, I don’t believe in people just doing stuff. I never do. It’s either one or the other.” I didn’t ask him to elaborate, I just said Okay. I mean, I guess you can say he’s the kind of guy who wants to take things real slow. It took him 8 months to ask me out the first time. (God, i feel like I’m defending him, sorrrrry! I always do this because i want to believe things are better than how they seem yaknow?) And no, we don’t have sex EVERY TIME, maybe 30% of the time he asks me to come over? I don’t know if this makes things any different? Btw I really appreciated your response, thank you thank you thank you!

Yeah, then maybe he is the type to take things slow. I can’t believe it took him 8 months to ask you out! Well, next time you guys have sex, maybe sure it’s when you both are IN a relationship, okay? Just be careful & good luck to you both. You are very welcome, btw! :)